Unfinished love story

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 Unfinished Love Story It began on an ordinary afternoon, the kind that never hints at becoming a memory. She was sitting in a quiet café, It began on an ordinary afternoon, the kind that never hints at becoming a memory. She was sitting in a quiet café, lost in her notebook, and he walked in like a moment out of place. Their eyes met the way small miracles happen—without announcement, without plan. They started talking, first about coffee, then about everything else that mattered and didn’t. There was laughter, long silences that felt safe, and the strange comfort of being understood without trying. He told her about his love for rain; she confessed her fear of goodbyes. They promised not to complicate things. Of course, they did. Love crept in quietly. It lived in the late-night texts, in songs they shared, in the way he looked at her when she wasn’t watching. But life, as always, had other plans. He had to leave—another city, another job, another dream pulling him away. They sai...
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Love is science

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"Love is truly a 'science'
it involves biological, psychological, and social factors.




Biological Chemistry

Dopamine: Creates feelings of happiness in the early stages of love

Oxytocin and Vasopressin: Foster deep attachment and trust between partners.

Serotonin: A decrease in serotonin during early love can lead to possesive thoughts.

Psychological Theories
Self-Expansiod Model
New experiences bring freshness to love and help strengthen relationships.
Matching Hypothesis
People usually choose partners who are socially or physically similar to themselves.
Emotional and Social Aspects
limbic system 
In close relationships, we become emotionally aware to each other's feelings.
Reciprocity & Familiarity Effects:
Care and frequent interactions increase feelings of love.
Neuropsychological Research
Physically being close —
 like touching faces or holding hands — increase feelings of love.
fMRI studies have shown that
love activates areas of the brain such as the reward system and the insula.
Love can genuinely have a positive effect on physical health, such as improving heart health and reducing stress.
Love is not just an emotion but a structured process:
Chemicals (dopamine, oxytocin, etc.)
Psychology (intimacy, passion, commitment)
Social factors (familiarity, similarity, exchange)
Neurology (reward pathways, limbic resonance)

All of these together form the complex experience of human love.


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