no concept of curse (bad-dua) in true love

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"There is no concept of curse (bad-dua) in true love" —  this sentence expresses  a deep philosophical and spiritual truth. Love, especially when it is true, selfless, and pure, holds no room for hatred, revenge, or curses. * Why is there no curse in true love? 1.Love is another name for sacrifice A true lover always wishes for the well-being and peace of the beloved, even if they are no longer together. “ May they stay happy — that’s my only prayer.” 2. Love is free from ego A curse arises from ego, while true love walks the path of surrender and humility. Love erases the ‘I’ within. 3. Love is like worship Just as one does not ask God for harm, a true lover never curses their beloved — not even in heartbreak.   The Sufi Perspective According to Sufi thinkers, love is a means of spiritual purification and divine closeness. Even if the beloved betrays or walks away, a true lover never curses. Instead, they say:  “If they were not written in my destiny, then O Lord,...
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Love is science

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"Love is truly a 'science'
it involves biological, psychological, and social factors.




Biological Chemistry

Dopamine: Creates feelings of happiness in the early stages of love

Oxytocin and Vasopressin: Foster deep attachment and trust between partners.

Serotonin: A decrease in serotonin during early love can lead to possesive thoughts.

Psychological Theories
Self-Expansiod Model
New experiences bring freshness to love and help strengthen relationships.
Matching Hypothesis
People usually choose partners who are socially or physically similar to themselves.
Emotional and Social Aspects
limbic system 
In close relationships, we become emotionally aware to each other's feelings.
Reciprocity & Familiarity Effects:
Care and frequent interactions increase feelings of love.
Neuropsychological Research
Physically being close —
 like touching faces or holding hands — increase feelings of love.
fMRI studies have shown that
love activates areas of the brain such as the reward system and the insula.
Love can genuinely have a positive effect on physical health, such as improving heart health and reducing stress.
Love is not just an emotion but a structured process:
Chemicals (dopamine, oxytocin, etc.)
Psychology (intimacy, passion, commitment)
Social factors (familiarity, similarity, exchange)
Neurology (reward pathways, limbic resonance)

All of these together form the complex experience of human love.


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